Lesson learnt
After the break-up, I've learnt something. That is not only to treasure the one you have by your side right now, additionally, you have got to trust one another. Looking or staring or whatever is just a mere look for love runs deep in the veins of our bloodflow.
Now I do not understand why I would get so worked up whenever my guy (if I have) looks at another girl, it's just "the look" and nothing else. However, I would get so paranoid and make a big fuss out of "the look". I guess it was just a sign of insecurity and perhaps not enough assurance from one and another. Just like the old saying "it takes two hands to clap", I reckoned that relationships work this way too.
Nonetheless, I am in no place to comment on relationships for I am a BIG FAILURE in this arena.
Coming into the issue that has been pondering me, almost everyday, that is looking at people. There are many reasons and excuses when one look at another, such as the other party is really attractive in both positive and negative ways or the other party is dressed weirdly or really stylish and stuff like that. Looking at people could be of good thoughts or lustful ones too. Usually when I look at people it is because I thought they look like my friends or they have good or bad fashion sense.
Ask yourself when you are being looked or when you look at someone, what is on your mind? Good or lustful or evil or simply nothing at all? Think about it. (:
In addition, I do hate it when a guy is holding his girlfriend's hand and looking at me! Although I did not do anything, the girlfriend would usually blame me. I bet this does not only happens to me. Any girl would surely have such an experience, be it, being the girlfriend or the stranger.
Well, I do not need to worry for anything now, as I am single, but unavailable. Guess I'm afraid of BGR.
Anyways, I'll be heading to town later with my handful of girlfriends in the school of MM. Woohoo! One word- FUN!
Hah. Hope the change of blogskin will mark a change in my perception of life- sunny sun sunny. Gosh! I cant wait to bake myself under the sun this saturday. Woots!
Now I do not understand why I would get so worked up whenever my guy (if I have) looks at another girl, it's just "the look" and nothing else. However, I would get so paranoid and make a big fuss out of "the look". I guess it was just a sign of insecurity and perhaps not enough assurance from one and another. Just like the old saying "it takes two hands to clap", I reckoned that relationships work this way too.
Nonetheless, I am in no place to comment on relationships for I am a BIG FAILURE in this arena.
Coming into the issue that has been pondering me, almost everyday, that is looking at people. There are many reasons and excuses when one look at another, such as the other party is really attractive in both positive and negative ways or the other party is dressed weirdly or really stylish and stuff like that. Looking at people could be of good thoughts or lustful ones too. Usually when I look at people it is because I thought they look like my friends or they have good or bad fashion sense.
Ask yourself when you are being looked or when you look at someone, what is on your mind? Good or lustful or evil or simply nothing at all? Think about it. (:
In addition, I do hate it when a guy is holding his girlfriend's hand and looking at me! Although I did not do anything, the girlfriend would usually blame me. I bet this does not only happens to me. Any girl would surely have such an experience, be it, being the girlfriend or the stranger.
Well, I do not need to worry for anything now, as I am single, but unavailable. Guess I'm afraid of BGR.
Anyways, I'll be heading to town later with my handful of girlfriends in the school of MM. Woohoo! One word- FUN!
Hah. Hope the change of blogskin will mark a change in my perception of life- sunny sun sunny. Gosh! I cant wait to bake myself under the sun this saturday. Woots!
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